Mature women in Bayamo. My name is Blanche. I am 30 yo. I am wanting couples
Okay, so I am a single guy, having been through the hell of dating long enough since my divorce. I have considered my ways and realize that I need to make some changes to attract the right type of woman. I am a great guy, and yet keep attracting flakes and weak minded bimbos who try to milk me for my body, my money, and my time. I want a fulfilling mature relationship.
What I have done wrong to this point:
1. too much sex right away in the relationship. In fact, due to my needs/desires of hardly wanting to sleep alone at night, too often I have been involved with a woman just for sex and for a warm body – just being honest. You know what I am talking about. Then the woman thinks I like her, which I do, just not enough to date her seriously. Call me a jerk, but we were both using each other. That cycle has happened more than I want to tell you. Enough of that.
2. hoping that a woman will be honest, show integrity, and actually live up to their word, even in the small details. This seems like an easy request, but time and time again I come across women who are incapable of showing this basic quality. if you say you will me, then do. If you say you will or won’t do something, then carry out what you said. if you change the plan, for whatever reason, just say so. As far as I am concerned, this is an excuse free zone and I am not going to be involved with someone who can’nt be honest. Right from the beginning. Yet the sap I am, I think a woman will change for the better. Not at my age (30s). If a woman isn’t honest by now, she isn’t going to be.
3. Not listening to my instincts. Well, it is simple, if it doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. If my first thought of a woman is “”no way will I want to date her”” then it is true, she isn’t a good match for me. Even if she puts out, has a great body, is sweet at least to start with, and wins me over. It has happened too many times, and we end up dating, then I finally get honest and end it. or, because i am not truly into her, she recognizes that, and she ends it. Either way, not gonna do that again. Real potential has to be there. Either I am interested or not.
4. Wasting time with women who either don’t have a car, can’t ever get time away from her kids, or job, or family, or ins’t willing to drive anywhere to meet. If you want something, or someone, figure it out. No excuses. I want someone who is willing to put the sweat in to spend time with me. And most of the time, it will be easy, but show me you aren’t lazy and selfish, please.
So there you have it. Great guy, trying to become a better man, for God, for himself, for his family, for his new amazing woman is, whoever she is.
Interested in getting to know more? SEND A PICTURE and include in the subject line “”New and Improved””. Or whatever you can to prove you are genuine. Must include pick. I am not putting my picture out there for all my colleagues and friends to give me a hard time. Your pic gets mine.